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Put first things first. Sure, everyone is important, but who is important to you?

Think win-win. It can be amazing for the both of us, lets make it happen.

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Wednesday, February 20, 2008

CJC

Hey. I won't even bother pretend to be surprised that this is the 3rd post in the span of 48 hours. I suppose its the blogging season.

Today was the first day of school. I can't say it was a dreadful day, but I can't exclaim that its the best day I've ever had, either. It was fun, and all, but also tiring. Not that much physically, but mentally. Having to adapt to a new environment isn't fun, and having to make several decisions of great magnitude on a day like this doesn't help too much to relieve me, either. Firstly, on the very day I had a briefing on the subject combinations, I had to make a choice which would definitely affect my future. My final decision was H2 Maths, Physics, Chem, and H1 General Studies in Chinese. I've been warned it is a difficult route, and be not to take it unless I'm highly confident I'll study hard. I'm highly confident now, I dunno how long that determination will last, but I certainly hope it does. The intelligence that helped me scrape through the O levels will become entirely worthless in JC education. Grant me some lasting discipline, any form of divine presence. The other major decision I had to make today was to decide between H2 chinese and General Studies in China Studies. I won't bore anyone with the details to why I can't take both, but I'll give a vague idea, its basically cos very few people want that subject combination and there'll be not enough people to form a class. Chinese has always been my strongest subject, and it was extremely tempting to take it as a H2 subject. It was not easy to decide, and although GSC eventually won, I'm still having 2nd thoughts. I need to quash them before school starts, so I don't get distracted.

So, the traumatic experience of going to a new school, plus making 2 major decisions have left me in a state commonly known as "exhaustion". I hope it doesn't last, cos its only the first day. Heck, since I've made so many decisions today, I might as well make another one to complete the set, lets just call someone up and tell her what I've been trying ( without avail ) to tell her for a week. Tempting? Certainly.

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Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Hmm.

2nd post in the same day, I wouldn't believe that was possible for me 2 weeks ago, but here I am, now.

Today...was the usual day, taking care of Jubee and Berry... Just a small difference, I went to meet Han Yen at my dad's shop to get the underwear for Jubee cos shes having her PMS and is dripping blood all over the house, leaving me with no choice. We chatted for a bit at the BK on top of my dad's shop and...oh, thats about all. I realise I don't freeze in front of her, unlike other girls. Maybe thats the difference between knowing a person for 16 years and a day. Or maybe its something else. Hmm.

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Ooo. 92 wordspm. Looks like I don't need touch typing lessons after all.


Just an update on my status.

Got posted to CJC this morning, no surprises there.


I took in one of the kittens, and am raising her now. The other kittens are gone, though, 2 were taken by someone else, one dissapeared with the mother cat, and one dissapeared by itself.


I find myself expecting my phone sms alert to ring, and staring at my phone alot. Weird.



Oh and on saturday I took Jubee to my aunt's house, again. I would like to thank them for their hospitability, and Han Yen ( or mcylne, but I'm used to the chinese name ) for rearranging her schedule so that I can visit. A pic.



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Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Something major must have happened for me to post another update so quickly after the previous long one. I wasn't really willing to push down the CNY post, though I quite liked it, so since you're here already, do me a favour, and read the previous post too, after you read this one.

Today.... I saved 5 kittens. Yes, that's quite major to me, whatever anyone might say. Here's how it went....

The prologue thing:



On the eve of CNY, "meows" could be heard from my house during the reunion dinner. I was told that a cat had decided to give birth to five kittens at the corridor beside my house. I registered the fact that there were now 6 cats outside my house, and didn't think too much about it.



The beginning:


The cat wasn't really a nuisance, it was just really fierce and prepared to pounce on anyone who got too near, but it didn't really pounce on anyone, so we let it stay there. I admit when I saw the kittens I was very attached to them, so a part of me wanted it to stay there, anyway. But that was just the beginning of everything...


The complication:


It would have been fine, until chu 4, that is, Sunday night, when I decided to take Jubee out for some exercise. Since the leash was stretchable, I let Jubee walk in front, as usual. Jubee, being extremely curious, went straight for the kittens when she saw them, and at the same time, the mother cat went for Jubee. It wasn't really a catfight, firstly because it was more of a cat-dog-fight, and secondly, the dog wasn't fighting very much, Jubee was surprised, the only thing that had ever attacked it was a plushie dog. So, I managed to calm Jubee down, and proceed on with the walk. Thankfully, Jubee was not hurt. However, the assault on Jubee would be the start of endless trouble for the cat...and me. My mum was DETERMINED to get rid of the cats for the safety of Jubee. Part of me agreed with her, while the other part of me felt that the cats didn't deserve it. After all, the cat was just trying to protect her kittens. My mum called the town council to remove the cats, and for awhile I would be dealing with the town council people as the main bad guy. Read on...



The Climax:


So, the town council people came, chased away the mother cat, and took the kittens to the carpark opposite my block, with the hope that it would fulfil my mother's request and get the cats away from us. I had mixed feelings about the cats leaving, but I thought nothing could be done, so I proceeded with my boring chu5. Interestingly, the next morning, I saw the cats again, yes , cats, not just the mother, but all 5 kittens, too. Obviously, whatever the town council was doing didn't work, but I wasn't complaining. While I was looking at the cats, a town council representative came up and chased away the mother cat. He explained that he was the one that took the kittens away the previous day, and was surprised to see that the cat had managed to find her kittens. I could tell that he was a kind man, but when my mother wants something done, she can get quite irritating, so I understand the pressure he was under. Thankfully, he didn't immediately remove the kittens, for they were hiding beneath a fairly large cupboard, and were out of reach. He left, presumably to look for something to take the kittens out. That was my chance, with the mother cat gone, I lifted that cupboard, took out Jubee's travelling box, and put two kittens inside. I went home, prepared milk, and did everything I could to raise it, but it didn't seem to be working, and, I read on the internet that kittens should best not be seperated from their parent before 10 weeks of age. So I unwillingly gave the two kittens back to the cat, who didn't seem really happy to find two of her kittens gone. Well from the moment I took the kittens in my mind was not in perfect order anymore, and I was determined to keep the kittens there, alive, no matter what my mum said. The cat had taken the kittens back to hiding behind the cupboard, so I supposed they were safe: if the town council guy came, he would have to ask for my permission to move the cupboard in order to reach the cats, and even if he was bloody rude and didn't ask for my permission, moving the cupboard would generate quite alot of noise and I would know, anyway, and therefore can stop him. Or so I thought. I went to check on the cats after 2 hours, and to my horror, only the cat was left--- the kittens were gone. I frantically ran to the carpark, climbed my whole block, and combed the neighbourhood, but I couldn't find the kittens. I was about to give up, when I saw my final ray of hope, I spotted the town council representative I spoke to in the morning. I ran down at once, and asked him where did he place the kittens. Coincidentally, he hadn't disposed of them yet, and was holding them in a box in his hand. He told me he couldn't kill them, so he could only move them to another area, but that was about as good as killing them. I convinced him that I will convince my mum to stop bugging the town council, and took the cats from him. He was glad, it couldn't be plainer that he didn't want to seperate the kittens from their mother as much as I did. I jubilantly raced back to my house and took out the kittens, one by one, and placed them in the mother cat's sight. She decided that my corridor was no longer safe, and moved them two storeys down. By this time, however, there were only 4 kittens--- the town council guy told me one of the kittens had dropped into the drain and died. But in the process of taking the cats down to the 2nd storey, something went wrong, and the next time I checked, there only 3 kittens left--- my favourite brown/white one was missing. I was certain that no one could've taken it away while the mother cat was looking, and it couldn't really move, and if it had fallen down the stairs, there would be a carcass, but there was none. I decided it was still alive, and in the area, so I moved down one more stairs, to the 1st floor, and I found her alone, tired and scared. I hastily took her back upstairs and carefully placed her in her mother's sight, and moved away quickly, for fear of being bitten. Now, my favourite kitten is back, and I'm happy. Other than the fact that my mum will kill me if she found out that I had taken the kittens back. Now, the bad guy was not the town council, but my mum, oh my. I called her, told her everything, and surprisingly she didn't get angry, now I'm cleared, and the kittens can stay... until they grow up.





It would have been the perfect ending for everyone, dog, cat, and human alike. I thought it was, too. However, at around 8-9pm, I heard meows, but they weren't coming from the 2nd floor, it sounded weaker and further. I decided to investigate. With a torchlight, I went to the 1st storey, and looked around. Nope, no kitten. I walk further. Then, something struck me. I raced to the carpark and bent over the drainage system. Yes the meowing was definitely coming from here. It doesn't take a genius to figure what happened, apparently the kitten fell in, but didn't die. I stuck my hand into the drain and pulled it up. Adorable lil thing. I took it back to the mother, and I think it might be grateful to me, for I saved all of her kittens, now this, is the happy ending.










That was long...










Pics! (I'll update these as the kittens grow)


The cat I never owned, the one I like most. I call it Paddie.








Updated ones.


More to come, tomorrow.



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Monday, February 11, 2008

CNY

Happy Chinese New Year everyone, er, anyone who's reading this. I realise its been awhile since christmas, but nothing much has been going on and I really don't see the need in informing everyone about everything from my daily life so that explains the scarce number of posts.


Anyway, I'm here to records my thoughts of the moment, so that a few months or years later when I read my archives I'll remember that 2008 was the best CNY I had in ten years. So, enough explaining and mental notes, and on with the blogging.

Here goes....

On 初一,I went to my auntie's house. I wasn't expecting alot, since it was almost always boring when I went there in the previous years. I suspect that is because I was too antisocial to mingle back then. Well as proof of how antisocial I am, I brought my dog with me to accompany me throughout the visiting hours. Before any of you go "wtf this retard is retarded visiting still bring dog", some explanation seems to be in place, first. You see, my dog was given to me by my cousin who I was visiting and it was one from a set of 6, I think, so it was only natural that I let them be reunited during CNY, isn't that what CNY is all about in the first place? Reunion? Anyhow, bringing Jubee turned out to be a good move, as everyone there was fond of dogs, and since they had 4 dogs of their own, I didn't need to keep her away from anyone--- everyone was trying to play with her. Other than one horrible woman, anyway. Including my dog there were 5 dogs present there that day so they more or less were in the limelight the whole time, not that I mind... Well, pictures, first, before I go on...





All of them though, you can't see the Jack Russell here.




If I didn't rmb the names wrongly...(from left) Winky, Nemo and Elmo.



Dogs having fun.


I have more, but I doubt anyone wants them, so I'll keep them for myself. If you're interested you can find me on msn, of course.

Oh, the dogs weren't the only thing that made me happy on chu1, I think last year's CNY I did an entry on how my dad's sister's grandaughter became damn chio all of a sudden, and I was too useless to go speak to her. Well, at the thundering age of 17, Junwen has finally got the guts to go talk to a female relative of the same age for the first time in er, five years? Its nothing much, but its a step from being totally useless. Oh, and I think she's nice.


Moving on to the next day...

Uh, on 2nd thought, the 2nd day isn't so good for blogging after all. I'll summarise it with 2 words, though. And here they are... "Mahjong" and "Relatives". That's the main idea, yea.


Moving on again...

The third day was yet another amazing day. Its amazing for a number of things, firstly being that it was the day on which the first ever SUCCESSFUL 6k gathering was held. Long term readers ( meaning no one ) will know that I grow up at the speed of a snail and even after graduating from SJI, I'm still fairly attached to my primary school. Just don't ask me why. So, anyway, the previous 6k gathering was... a fiasco, so I feared the same thing would happen, but no, it didn't, and it was a fun day for everyone. The first stop was Mrs Goh (P6 form teacher)'s house, and we played a few games there, nothing much to elaborate, and I hope no one else does... Mrs Goh hasn't changed much, making her unique, everyone there has changed drastically over the years. There's just this one girl who changed so much that I needed to see her ez-link card to confirm it was her. She's become quite pretty, which I admit with regret I never thought possible. I'm sorry for saying that, Jiamin, lol. After that we went to AMK Hub for dinner and then to Bukit Timah for pool... not much to elaborate for those 2 places, other than fun. Here's a pic.
2nd row, furthest left, that would be me.
The idiot on my right(in green) would be the idiot I call Joel.
Beside Joel is Ivan, and further right is kian tat.
And... oh, this is tiring, if anyone is really interested in their names, just drop a tag or tell me on msn. alrite?
And we move on... to the next day.
So, sunday! And the event of the day was visiting... my tuition teacher's house. I met the KC star Kim there, she looks... the same as on tv. We played blackjack, at which I lost about 20 dollars, F, and then mahjong. Yes, I know going to my tuition teacher's house to gamble isn't very right, but that's the way it is and I have no intention of changing it so its alright, really. It was fun and all, and I hope there would be future gatherings like that. I just keep getting the feeling it might be a whole year before the next one... No pics for this one, sorry.
And that pretty much sums out my CNY, and I'll be back... the next time something major happens. Till then, bye.

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