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"Love is a verb. Love – the feeling – is the fruit of love the verb or our loving actions. So love her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her."

Be Proactive. If there isn't a solution, be the solution. Make things happen.

Begin with the end in mind. Know where you're going before you go, and you'll get there eventually.

Put first things first. Sure, everyone is important, but who is important to you?

Think win-win. It can be amazing for the both of us, lets make it happen.

Seek first to understand, then to be understood. I'm listening, are you?

Synergise. 1+1=3, believe.

Sharpen the saw. There's much to improve on, but we could start by starting here



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Tuesday, March 27, 2007

Waiting for someone, something

I remember 10minutes ago I was reminding myself I had to blog about something important. But I've forgotten what it is. So I shall start typing my random thoughts until I remember what I wanted to blog about.

Note: This was NOT what I had in mind to blog about.

Random fact of the day #1:
Well speaking of random... nothing's more random than what I did today. While travelling back school today, I was listening to yes93.3 and when it came to the song dedications, I heard the dj(peifen) say "Pearlyn has dedicated this song(fahrenheits' chao xi huan ni-.-) to everyone..". Immediately, I thought of the Pearlyn I knew and even though subconciously I knew it couldn't be her, I could not resist the temptation to sms her to see if it was her. I strongly believe in coincidences, you see. Of course I knew the chances were extremely low but still....
Anyway Pearlyn did reply and she also happened to comment on my randomness(lol).
Moral of the story: Pearlyn is a common name. I'm an idiot.
Personal thoughts: But I haven't seen any other pearlyn in my life... is the name really common oO?


Ok... after that random story, I still haven't thought of what i wanted to blog about, so here's random fact #2:
I was supposed to take my dog(jubee) to the vet tomorrow for its injection with Regina but sadly my dad had taken it to the vet himself yesterday cos he was sick and had lotsa free time.
Sigh, what a pity, this normal trip to the vet could've been fabulous... I haven't seen Regina in a long long time, and I haven't seen my dog in a long long time too, and I kinda miss them, so I was kinda looking forward to the trip, but....crap. The next injection's 3months later, great.

End of random facts.
Heck I need someone to talk to. Someone with high intelligence and sensitivity. Last year when Rui said that she needed someone to talk to, I thought that was not possible, there're so many people around, just go talk to them! But slowly this year I'm starting to understand how she felt, not everyone is suitable for talking to, and some stuff can only be told to certain people. I used to think I was immune to troubles, would be permanently effortlessly happy, and never lonely.
I used to tell Rui to think like me, that everything would be fine, that its pointless to think too much. But I was wrong. This world is filled with troubles, just that I was too immature and blind to notice them. Come to think of it, I have very few people I can talk to, as in really confide in and ask for opinions, cos there are so many people you can't trust to keep secrets, and even if you could, they might not be able to comfort you in any way. This is just gonna escalate into a never-ending post on my thoughts on life currently, so I should stop here.

I blogged @ | 7:10 PM


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Sunday, March 25, 2007

I should start posting in chinese, cos personally I think chinese is a better language for expressing emotions, as compared to english... But I'm not accustommed to the chinese program yet so I'll blog in english for now.

This weekend was especially eventful, with the ncc company camp, bongie's cafe thingy, and midnight movie at cineleisure. I won't go into details, cos that would be extremely long and boring to read.

The NCC camp was fun cos being the most seniors in the company, we enjoyed many priveleges, which included having unlimited food and bath time. But what truely made it meaningful was the night walk. In the past few years I've always dreaded the night walk but this year I finally see why so many old boys come back to SJI just for the night walk. Being a part A sergeant, the responsibilty was on me( together with ye sheng and joel) to take care of the sec ones during the 6km walk. The responsibility made the night walk particularly enjoyable, and it kinda made me regret not being so enthusiastic in my early years in NCC. This would be the last company camp and the last night walk for me, I'm glad I enjoyed it.

At the end of the company camp, I stopped by Far East plaza to get some RM changed into SGD. Then I decided to visit a friend who happened to be working there, I did see her, but she was with other people whom I didn't know so I didn't bother saying hello. But the trip was not totally wasted cos it got me thinking: she's as old as I am, why is she working while I'm not? I'm definitely not superior to her in any way... This is still a troubling thought for me which I haven't quite straightened out. Maybe I should go work. And I think I like her.

After that Randall, Joel, Si Song and me proceeded to the bong's cafe to hear him sing cos it was supposed to be his last session there. Anyway bong surprised me with his chinese conversational skills and also his singing. It was not half bad...I was thinking maybe next time I could go hear him sing with other friends, but den there wouldn't be a next time after all since it was his last time singing there.

We sat there for 3 to 4 hours, n after the singing was done bongie thanked everyone n his fangirls gave him gifts. I personally found that quite interesting....my tuition teacher has fangirls...lol? After that we went to cineleisure where we met bongie's girlfriend and had an extremely late dinner. Actually she wasn't bad, quite nice actually, contrary to what I had believed before i met her. Bongie's quite lucky.

And then we watched an extremely low class movie--- Mr Bean. It was crappy. So after that we took a cab to bongie's house and by the time we got there, it was 5am. We den had a 4hour sleep and after that.... tuition with bongie.

For people still reading at this point of time(which I doubt none will), you might notice I'm not bothering to explain some stuff. Partially because i think no one's reading it, but mostly because if I had gone on to explain, it would be far-too-long.

And she still hasn't replied.

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