I don't know how we got here,
but I find myself in this absurb situation where, instead of being able to communicate my thoughts with my own girlfriend freely, it has become impossible to find a good time to talk to you about deep issues. And now, we have come to agree that there's never a good time - only a less bad time.
I understand you're frustrated and there's nothing much you are able to do.
But if work continues to be the centre of all our activities, plans, and constant obstruction to our communication, its going to set us in the wrong direction, no matter how hard we try.
So love, I beg you, I'm not asking for swiping big plans and commitment of large amounts of discipline and time. I'm only ask that you seriously consider the smallest things - habits and tricks to avoid distractions and make yourself more efficient. I hope we are on the same page and it is with great faith in our relationship that I type this, cos I know we can work things out together.
Love,
Junwen.